Some of the customs below apply only to dating, others will be relevant in a variety of other social situations as well. But he’ll still be more comfortable if you understand, and respect, his* own culture and customs. Sooner than expected, you may find yourself socializing with new friends, or even dating on a level that involves more than a trip back to the hotel room.Īny Thai who speaks enough English to carry on a conversation with you probably understands western customs to some extent. Moreover, these Thai men are eager to meet you. W estern men who visit gay bars or other gay venues in Thailand will readily meet Thais who speak enough English to socialize. “He just used my toothbrush!” You’ll handle certain surprises better, if you’re prepared for the differences between Asian and western cultures.